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Day 4: Sometimes the Sun Don’t Shine.

Star gazing is one of my most favorite things to do.  Hands down.  You know when you have those moments of feeling so small, and so amazed at what you are experiencing?  I have that moment almost every time I look up at the night sky.

So you can only imagine my excitement when I heard about the annual Perseid Meteor Shower that was going to reach its peak in early August.  The only thing better than a sky filled with stars, is a sky filled with shooting stars!  They were expecting spectators to see up to 100 stars per hour!  So plans were made and my husband and I decided to drive out into the country, pitch a tent at a campground and stargaze away from city lights so we could have the best experience.

Doesn’t all of that sound lovely?  Let’s just begin by saying as the events of the evening unfolded, it just kept getting worse.

It had been a cloudy day, like no-peaks-of-sunshine-cloudy, just a blanket of gray fluff. We questioned whether or not to go through with our plan, but the forecast said “clearing after midnight”.  So, onward, ho!

:: starting our trip! ::

We arrived at the campground late because we were celebrating a friend’s 40th birthday. It was dark. The campground was crowded. So we drove around trying to find a spot and hoping that we wouldn’t get kicked out! (we never made a reservation and the office was closed!) So around 1030PM the tent was pitched and we were ready for bed.

But it was HOT… which made it slightly uncomfortable. Also, my husband was having tooth pain. And our allergies got CRAZY. But we went to sleep and I set my alarm for 1AM, which was the earliest time to catch the greatest number of stars.  But alas, at 1 o’clock that nasty blanket of clouds did not go away.  And it was still there at 2, 3 and 4AM. Major disappointment.  So I gave up, and didn’t set my alarm again.

:: morning view from our tent ::

At 7 we were woken by some crows singing (if that’s what you can call the sound crows make) loudly outside.  Since we were up and frustrated from the night before, we packed up our things, paid for the campsite, and were on our way back home by 8. Not one star spotted.

FAIL.

:: deliciousness in a cup ::

The only redeeming part of this whole adventure was stopping at Starbucks on the way home for some coffee and breakfast.

Lesson learned:  Spontaneous adventures don’t always end up being fun. But I was still glad that we went, because if we didn’t, I’d still be wondering if we missed something beautiful. Just because I plan something, doesn’t mean it will turn out accordingly.  I need to accept things however they play out.  Or maybe I could learn to never trust the forecast!!

 

:: This post is part of a 31 day series.  To see a list of all the posts, click here. ::

Day 3: How are you living?

This is me hangliding in the summer of 2008!

Eleanor Roosevelt was a smart woman.  She lived an adventure.  When I saw this quote I knew I had to include it in my 31 days.

If I could put these words into my own, I would say: Living an adventure means taking risks, reaching out and experiencing things outside of the norm.  When we choose these things, our life becomes fuller, and more abundant.

What does this look like?

It could be saying yes to a coffee date with someone you don’t know very well.  It could be spending an afternoon in solitude in a beautiful place, just your thoughts and God.  It could be traveling to a city (or even a different part of your own city!) and getting to know people who seem to be nothing like you. It could be jumping off a cliff into crystal blue water.  It could mean being brave enough to conquer an obstacle you never thought you’d be strong enough to overcome. It might be something big, it could be something small.

The only part of Eleanor’s words that I disagree with is that I don’t believe that these things happen without fear.  I think that fear is a vital part of adventure.  It pushes us and stretches us beyond anything we could imagine. But only if you don’t let it overtake you.

I love the first part of this quote, “the purpose of life is to LIVE it.”  It’s so simple. Are you living your life?  What are some obstacles you’ve had to overcome?

I would love to know the ways you are living your life!  Please leave a comment below and share!

 

:: This post is part of a 31 day series.  To se a list of all the posts, click here.